9.01.2012
The Potty Chronicles. Part II of IV
8.31.2012
The Potty Chronicles: Part I of IV
That whole motherhood thing....
This has been writing itself in my head, and heart, for quite a while. So here goes...
Women are SO mean to each other... ridiculously mean to each other. ALL women. But this particular post isn't about all women, its specifically about women-with-children.
Motherhood is HARD! Don't for a second let anyone tell you differently, it may be easier for some then others but it's still HARD. How can it not be? When you're a mother your responsible for another persons life (kinda a big deal, just sayin'). You're responsible for the person that they ultimately become! The decisions and choices and chances to totally SCREW UP are huge!
So let's take it back a little. Mommy's, please take a look at several of your closest friends. People you love, adore, trust, get stupid face wasted with (or not, i won't judge)... those people. Think about how they were raised. Was it exactly the same as you? No. It wasn't, even if it was similar it wasn't exactly the same... so why are we so shocked that we all raise our kids differently?
More importantly, who are we to say "I'm crunchy & you're silky and therefore you're not raising your children the right way". If you're like me the first time you read that you said "say whaaaa?!" Crunchy moms? Silky moms? When did we start becoming parfait choices?! Why can't we each just raise our kids the way we see fit. As long as women are loving and taking care of their children, who are we to judge if a mother ::gasp:: doesn't vaccinate, or ::faint:: had her son circumcised... don't even get me started on breastfeeding, that is an entire post in itself.
If you're a mother that makes EDUCATED decisions for your child's life, you will not feel judged by me! I have a friend who has made some decisions in her children's lives that differ from my own. She doesn't vaccinate, and she chose to have her 3rd son not circumcised. She posts articles and comments on her facebook page explaining why she made these decisions and I personally respect her more for it. I vaccinate, and Landon was circ and I still read EVERY article my friend posts. She loves her boys, she takes fantastic care of them, and she educates herself fully before she makes any decision regarding their lives. To me, that's an incredible mom! Why should i feel the need to judge her, or "hate on her". It's her duty as a mother to make the important decisions and she is doing just that.
I'm not saying we all have to sit around and sing kumbaya together but sheesh ladies... being a mommy is hard enough without other mommy's telling you you're not doing it right. So lets stop "hatin'" on each other and start patting each other on the back.
Spread the love!
I double dog dare you to pick at least one other mother and tell her what a fantastic job she's doing, do it.
With Love,
Just Leia
8.07.2012
ekkkkkkkkkkk.
s.p.i.d.e.r.s
tiny teeny little 8 legged creepy crawly spin down from your ceiling and stare at you spiders.
ehk.
I love our little house. I do! I love the high ceilings and the big windows on every wall. I love the hardwood floors and the big rooms. Love it. But it has all of those features specifically because it is an older house. You know what else older houses have? Spiders... not big scary bite you and then your arm falls off spiders, but teeny, in every corner gives you the heebie jeebies spiders.
Now lets be clear. I hate (read: am terrified of) spiders and my hatred (read: fear) does not discriminate between different types. I hate (read: run from) them all.
This little gem was vacant for quite awhile before I stumbled upon it, and so when i moved in there were these little teeniney spiders everywhere! Now I've swept them all out but they are still seen lurking in certain corners or crevices. Enough so to make me nearly jump out of bed every time my sheet moves. For I am so certain that one of these teensy little... meanies is crawling up my leg or something. ^&#(*@yuck@$^^*#.
All that aside, I LOVE the house. I have so many projects and ideas for it. We are having Landon's birthday here in 2 weeks and I wish I could get EVERYTHING done and painted and built and landscaped and crafted and designed and hung (gasp) before then. Hahaha, yeah right. For now I have to be content with the finished version of this house that lives in my imagination!
Landon LOVES the house... the layout allows him to run laps through every room and he has so much fun listening to his feet stomp on the hard floors. Occasionally he can be found in the middle of his room just jumping and stomping. Ahh, the little things.
Yesterday I started school... that's right, a few years from now when I'm standing in front of a class of elementary students I can remember yesterday as the start of my future. No more excuses and no more waiting for someone to come into my life and rescue me. I'm not a damsel in distress. I'm a strong woman who is taking her life into her own hands (finally).
That being said... It's time for me to get to some classwork!
With Love,
Leia & Landon
p.s. i think I'm not totally back in the blogging zone. I feel like my posts are not as witty and informative as they used to be. Hopefully Ill get my groove back soon!
7.29.2012
Happy New Home
We are so blessed. God is so good to us, all the time.
We had 7 people, 3 trucks, 2 cars, & a trailer helping us move! We needed every single bit of that to get here. How did we get so much stuff. If you had walked through my apartment the day before I started packing, you would have never thought that it would have taken that much to move us. It was like once I pulled out the boxes my stuff started multiplying, seriously. I got to a point around 3 this morning that I thought about just sleeping with my front door wide open hoping someone would come steal all my stuff. That bad.
But... WE ARE HERE! Praise God!
& I am one tired mommy so, Im going to bed and Ill type more about how much I adore our super fabulous little house tomorrow.
With love,
Leia & Landon
7.28.2012
for real, for real, for real.
IM BACK.
I can say this with absolute confidence this time BECAUSE I have real internet again... as in, the real deal wireless home computer stuff. As in not just on my phone.
Blogging from my phone in theory seemed like a great idea. but it wasnt. so i didnt.
Proof that Ill be back to blogging more? My internet has been turned on at the new house for 3 mintues. literally. I am sitting in the floor of our new house because I haven't moved anything over here yet. except my computer. dedication. for real (:
4.30.2012
Here we are, right where we need to be.
Immmmm backkkkkk.
Kinda.
Oh, beloved blog, how I've missed you. Editing down my thoughts to a mere few sentences for months was so sad. So sad.
However, the blogger app & my phone clearly do not get along. I've been without "real internet" for awhile now & navigating this site on my "mobile device" has been a little tricky. I dont like the editing style on this kind of knock off app but alas, I've figured it out! I plan on getting internet soon and so then ill be able to post the way I like. (:
I originally created this blog for personal and family use. As a way to look back over mine and Landon's adventures and almost keep an online scrapbook. Fail.
So much has happened since my last post, both blog worthy & not. I've decided not to go back and try and remember all of it (ahem, if I had been keeping up with this I wouldn't have to TRY and remember).
So here we are. Today. Landon is 20 months old, walking, talking a little, & giving mommy daily glimpses of the terrible twos. Yikes. He is so wonderful tho, always keeping me on my toes! Mommy is starting a new job very soon and it's going to open all sorts of new exciting opportunities for us.
So that's our update for now (nothing exciting) & I'm going to start keeping up with this again (no, really!)
With love,
Leia & Landon




